For many people, becoming parents is a simple step in life. They become parents because it is the right time or because others do so at a certain age in their lives. It should be noted, however, that becoming a parent must be motivated by desire and love and then by preparation for a change in marital status. Details.
A child is the product of the love of a couple ready to commit to a life together throughout life. From puberty onwards, teenagers feel attracted to girls their own age and vice versa. This attraction leads to dating the person who makes their heart beat. As time goes by, the couple is formed and at the same time, their love becomes more and more intense. At this point, when the couple is ready to commit to a lifelong relationship, they may want the life of a parent and be sure of the well-being of the unborn child. Some couples even choose a child-support formula and decide to adopt instead of procreate. No problems arise as long as the couple is in love and is prepared to face all the worries that may arise in life, especially about raising and educating their child.
In the eyes of the majority, the procreation or adoption of a child is the logical continuation of a marriage or union between two people who love each other. However, a couple does not necessarily wish to have a child. There are those who only want to enjoy life together, to travel and discover the world… For these types of couples, a child would be cumbersome and prevents them from living life to the fullest. For these reasons, the desire for a child must be very real and tangible before conceiving one. The well-being and development of the child is at stake. This desire for a child already helps the couple to become aware of the responsibilities that await them, particularly in terms of care, education and love. The parental instinct is born with this ardent desire to make a child with the loved one. The couple is already maturing through this mutual desire to start a family. The two people who love each other tend towards the same goals and this helps to strengthen their relationship and love.
Parenting means being aware of the responsibilities involved, particularly in ensuring the physical, intellectual and mental development of the child over time and over the years. The maturity and love that unites the couple is very important to ensure that these responsibilities are not overwhelming and that the parents fulfill them with pleasure. Beyond love for their child, there is also the need for social and financial independence. Parents must have their own home and also have a job or a reliable source of income. Raising a child means spending money on daily needs, food, medical care, education… The financial aspect is therefore not negligible for any couple wishing to have a child.